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_menuOpenDelay=150;
_subOffsetTop=2;
_subOffsetLeft=2;
buildafterload="true";


with(menuStyle=new mm_style()){
bordercolor="DimGray";
borderstyle="solid";
borderwidth="2";
fontfamily="Verdana, Tahoma, Arial";
fontsize="8pt";
fontstyle="normal";
fontweight="bold";
headerbgcolor="#ffffff";
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onbgcolor="Firebrick";
oncolor="Gainsboro";
padding="6";
pagecolor="Black";
separatorcolor="Firebrick";
separatorsize="1";
subimage="images/black_7x7.gif";
subimagepadding="6";
itemwidth="100";
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with(submenuStyle=new mm_style()){
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borderstyle="solid";
borderwidth="1";
fontfamily="Verdana, Tahoma, Arial";
fontsize="8pt";
fontstyle="bold";
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offcolor="#000000";
onbgcolor="#999999";
onbold="bold";
oncolor="Black";
padding="4";
subimage="images/black_7x7.gif";
subimagepadding="5";
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position="relative";
style=menuStyle;
alwaysvisible="1";
aI("text=Newsletter;target=;url=newsletter.html;");
aI("showmenu=Narcissistic Personality Disordernarcissism definitionLEFT_MENU;text=Narcissistic Personality Disorder;target=;url=narcissistic-personality-disorder.html;");
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aI("showmenu=Recovery ResourcesRecommended BooksLEFT_MENU;text=Recovery Resources;target=;url=resources-for-daughters-of-narcissistic-mothers.html;");
aI("showmenu=EFT - Emotional FreedomTestimonialsLEFT_MENU;text=EFT - Emotional Freedom;target=;url=emotional-freedom-technique.html;");
aI("text=Good Links;target=;url=good-links.html;");
aI("text=For Children Who Are Broken;target=;url=for-children-who-are-broken.html;");
aI("text=You As Mother;target=;url=you-as-mother.html;");
aI("text=Abusive Mother;target=;url=abusive-mother.html;");
aI("text=About Me;target=;url=about-me.html;");
aI("text=Contact Me;target=;url=contact-me.html;");
aI("text=About This Website;target=;url=about-this-website.html;");
aI("text=Donation;target=;url=donation.html;");
aI("text=Privacy Policy;target=;url=privacy-policy.html;");
aI("text=Site Map;target=;url=sitemap-page-order.html;");
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aI("showmenu=narcissism traitsCharacteristicsLEFT_MENU;text=narcissism traits;target=;url=narcissism-traits.html;");
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aI("text=Narcissistic Supply;target=;url=narcissistic-supply.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Rage;target=;url=narcissistic-rage.html;");
aI("text=How To Recognize a Narcissist;target=;url=how-to-recognize-a-narcissist-diagnosing-narcissism.html;");
aI("text=How To Deal With A Narcissist;target=;url=how-to-deal-with-a-narcissist.html;");
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style=submenuStyle;
aI("text=Characteristics;target=;url=characteristics-of-narcissistic-mothers.html;");
}

with(milonic=new menuname("Mothers with narcissistic personality disorderEngulfing MotherLEFT_MENU")){
style=submenuStyle;
aI("text=Engulfing Mother;target=;url=engulfing-mother.html;");
aI("text=Ignoring Mother;target=;url=ignoring-mother.html;");
aI("text=NMs Being Nice;target=;url=narcissistic-mothers-being-nice.html;");
aI("text=Invalidation;target=;url=invalidation.html;");
aI("text=Strings Attached;target=;url=strings-attached.html;");
aI("text=Gaslighting;target=;url=gaslighting.html;");
aI("text=Forms Of Abuse;target=;url=forms-of-abuse.html;");
aI("text=Golden Child Scapegoat;target=;url=golden-child-scapegoat.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Mothers are Bullies;target=;url=narcissistic-mothers-are-bullies.html;");
aI("text=Emotional Vampires;target=;url=emotional-vampires.html;");
aI("text=Your Success and Happy Days;target=;url=your-success-and-happy-days.html;");
aI("text=Parentification;target=;url=parentification.html;");
aI("text=Infantalisation;target=;url=infantalisation.html;");
aI("text=Triangulation;target=;url=triangulation.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Mothers' Vanity;target=;url=narcissistic-mothers-vanity.html;");
aI("text=Strange Sexuality;target=;url=narcissistic-mothers-strange-sexuality.html;");
aI("text=Enabling Father;target=;url=enabling-father.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Mother Dictionary;target=;url=narcissistic-mother-dictionary.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Mothers and Society;target=;url=narcissistic-mothers-and-society.html;");
}

with(milonic=new menuname("Daughters of Narcissistic MothersDONM JourneyLEFT_MENU")){
style=submenuStyle;
aI("text=DONM Journey;target=;url=donm-journey.html;");
aI("text=Your Authentic Self;target=;url=your-authentic-self.html;");
aI("text=Stockholm Syndrome;target=;url=stockholm-syndrome.html;");
aI("text=Donms and ill health;target=;url=donms-and-ill-health.html;");
aI("text=Negative Self-Talk;target=;url=negative-self-talk.html;");
aI("text=Never Good Enough;target=;url=never-good-enough.html;");
aI("text=Feeling Guilt;target=;url=feeling-guilt.html;");
aI("text=Low Contact;target=;url=low-contact.html;");
aI("showmenu=No ContactNo Contact 101LEFT_MENU;text=No Contact;target=;url=no-contact.html;");
aI("text=Self-Care Deficit;target=;url=self-care-deficit.html;");
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style=submenuStyle;
aI("text=No Contact 101;target=;url=no-contact-101.html;");
aI("text=Light's No Contact Essay;target=;url=light's-no-contact-essay.html;");
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with(milonic=new menuname("Recovery ResourcesRecommended BooksLEFT_MENU")){
style=submenuStyle;
aI("text=Recommended Books;target=;url=recommended-books.html;");
aI("text=Movies re NPD;target=;url=movies-re-npd.html;");
aI("text=John Bradshaw Homecoming;target=;url=john-bradshaw-homecoming.html;");
aI("text=Personal Power For Women;target=;url=personal-power-for-women.html;");
}

with(milonic=new menuname("EFT - Emotional FreedomTestimonialsLEFT_MENU")){
style=submenuStyle;
aI("text=Testimonials;target=;url=testimonials.html;");
aI("showmenu=EFT InstructionsIf it doesn't workLEFT_MENU;text=EFT Instructions;target=;url=eft-instructions.html;");
}

with(milonic=new menuname("EFT InstructionsIf it doesn't workLEFT_MENU")){
style=submenuStyle;
aI("text=If it doesn't work;target=;url=if-it-doesn't-work.html;");
}


 drawMenus();